Intimacy is a vital aspect of any healthy relationship, and reigniting the spark can sometimes require a bit of creativity. Exploring new ways to connect with your partner can add excitement and deepen your emotional bond.
We’ve compiled a list of consensual sexual positions that can help rekindle the flame in your relationship, bringing a fresh dynamic to your intimate moments.
Missionary
The missionary sexual position is exceptional and will never be out of date. This sexual position is good for couples who are all about intimacy and making a meaningful connection with each other. The nature of this sexual position means you’re in for some intense skin-to-skin contact, eye-gazing, and plenty of smooching.
Position: It is really simple to do. One person lies on their back while the other partner is on top, facing them. The person on top generally controls the power and depth of thrusting, while the one below can move their hips and legs to change up the sensations.
69
69 is yin-and-yang oral sex. This sex position is mutual and very intimate. According to sex experts, ’69’ is perfect for couples to pleasure and orgasm simultaneously.
If you want to give your mouth a break, this oral sex can also spice things up by incorporating sex toys into the mix, like throwing in a butt plug, vibrator, or masturbation sleeve.
Position: Have your partner lie down, flat on their back. Then climb on top, so you’re facing away from your partner. Your genitals should be lined up with your partner’s mouth, and your genitals should be lined up with yours. Alternatively, you can try it in a side-by-side position. See what feels most comfortable for you!
Face-off
Face-to-face sex is another great way to build emotional intimacy and feelings of closeness. This sex position boosts your oxytocin levels, that’s the “love hormone” or “cuddle chemical.” associated with bonding, trust, and when you’re experiencing an orgasm. It is also good to note that the face-off works for vaginal and anal sex but either way, make sure you use lots of lubricants.
Position: The penetrating partner begins by sitting in a comfortable chair or on the edge of a bed. The receiving partner straddles their lap and wraps their arms around the penetrating partner’s back. The receiving partner can then lower themselves onto the penis or dildo of their partner. The receiver can then go for a ride, and if they get tired, they can hover while the penetrating partner holds their hips and thrusts into them.
The Ballet dancer
If you want to add a standing position to your sexual repertoire, consider the ballet dancer’s sex position. This is another very intimate sex position that allows eye and body contact.
Position: Stand facing each other, and have the receiving partner stand on one foot and wrap her other leg around the penetrating partner’s waist, while you hold each other for balance. If the receiver is flexible, she can raise her leg higher for deeper penetration and greater satisfaction.
Squatting cowgirl
This position gives the receiving partner more control over the penetrating partner. The lady has more control over the speed and depth. The man will be able to grab her behind with both hands. This move also provides ample G-spot action.
Position: the receiver will be seated on top of the penetrating partner, with their feet on the bed, while leaning backwards. They can place their hands on the thighs or the bed behind them.
Lotus Blossom
Lotus Blossom is a great one to try. If you’re craving more intimacy and romance in your sexual life, This is not a position for a fast fuck; it lends itself better to slow lovemaking and a soulful connection. It allows eye-gazing, in-sync breathing, and touching your foreheads (your third eye) together to increase the feeling of connection even more.
Position: One partner straddles the other partner while you both sit cross-legged. The top partner wraps their legs around the bottom partner as you face each other and embrace. The bottom partner enters the top partner vaginally with a toy or penis.
Spider
Spider is a great sex position for those who are looking for slower sexual experiences. This position is great for frontal stimulation of the vaginal wall, which is a known pleasure centre, that, when stimulated, increases the likelihood of squirting.
Position: The man sits down, his legs are bent at the knees and spread apart, and his hands are stretched out; he lifts his body, keeping him on his feet and hands. The woman sits on top of her male partner in the same position, only with her face towards the man, her back on her knees leaning on outstretched hands and feet.
Waterfall
If you want a new twist in the bedroom, then the waterfall is a sex position that will certainly make things interesting for you and your partner. this sex position is guaranteed to satisfy both men and women in equal measure, so it’s a win-win for both.
Position: The man lies down with his head and shoulder on the floor and his hips on the bed, while the woman moves to the edge of the bed, straddles the man and gets on top in a manner similar to the woman-on-top position. The only difference is that your head is lower than your body, which will give you an amazing sensation as the blood rushes to the male’s head. But be careful, over-enthusiasm in this position could lead to some serious injuries to either the penis or the man’s head.
The Sockets
This sex position is a nice place to fantasise a little and get a new view of your partner’s behind and it gives you a chance to get absorbed in the sensations.
Position: the receiving partner bends all the way forward, extending their legs all the way back. They should be supporting their body by resting on their elbows as if they’re holding a plank. With a hot tip, a vulva-owning receiver can easily touch their clitoris while being penetrated. And if the two of you are into spanking, have at it.
Pearly Gates
This is an intimate girl-on-top sex position that allows you to stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time. While the woman controls the pace of lovemaking, the male hands are free to caress her chest, hips, thighs, neck, face, and clitoris. This is an advanced sex position, and not for everyone. The problem is staying inside, especially for guys who are smaller than average. You may want to keep a hand on her vulva to avoid slippage.
Position: The giver lies on their back. The receiver can straddle them in a reverse cowgirl position before carefully leaning backwards until their back is on their partner’s chest.
Remember to always prioritise open communication, mutual respect, and enthusiastic consent in your romantic endeavours.
